WHAT MAKES A GOOD WIFE? (THE HOME-MAKER)

***Hey peeps, here is something I posted on my timeline on Facebook about a year ago. I thought it is worth sharing you, especially the ladies, who really want to be wonderful home makers. Enjoy***

Good wives are on high demand, and good prospective husbands are no way near relenting in finding the home maker, who would make the money worth spending. In order to make relationships interesting, it has to be filled with innovation; new things every day. This ranges from the routines to the delicacies. This is the twenty-first century; no one needs a boring and uninteresting life. And besides most marriages are not as binding as marriages used to be (couples can easily get their marriage dissolved, unlike in the past times). So, If you are boring, you are out.

Let’s cut to the chase. Here are few skills you can acquire and use it to keep your marriage/relationship alive

1) CULINARY SKILLS:
As a wife to be, your cooking skills have to be stepped up. If you can boil a noodle, that’s fine, but I want to ask, who can't boil noodles?
When I say cooking, I mean stepped up Egusi, Onugbu, Ogbono, Edikang ikong, Banga, Ora, Nsala and Okazi soups with stock fish, Canda, beef, periwinkle, and etc. all in it; that can make people's mouth water when they perceive the aroma. These and with some other intercontinental delicacies in your recipe. Get your cooking skills fired up with lots of menus. Do not let house-helps ruin your marriage; husbands love it when their wives cook.

2) CAN YOU BAKE or FRY?
This is going to sound too out of proportion, but we men love women that can use flour effectively, especially when the need arises; such as birthdays, Easter, Christmas,etc. You are going to be surprised at how much. Last Christmas my mum made Chin-chin, of course it finished on Boxing Day, but while it lasted, there was much joy in the house. Anytime my pops was not busy, his mouth was, and you can easily tell that he was proud of his wife.
Learn how to bake cakes and how to fry chin-chin, buns, doughnut, Akara, etc. it will come in handy.

3) CAN YOU GIVE FIRST AID?
Now, this exactly is the reason why as a kid I wanted my future wife to be in the medical field.
If you want to be a good mother and wife and you can't administer first aid, I'm sorry, you're a long way from achieving it.
I can remember the number of times I got patched up by my mum when I was a kid. My biggest injury so far was treated by my mum even though she studied a commercial course.
Whatever you study, learn how to administer first aid, your kids and you husband, especially your kids will love you more in future because of it.

4) ARE GOOD WITH WOOLS AND NEEDLE?
You don't need to be a tailor to learn how to use a needle. Your kids wouldn't care if you know how to get their clothes patched up or not, all they would know is how to play and have fun. Unless your husband would be buying clothes every week. I'm just saying that no matter how rich I may be, if I see my wife getting my clothes or that of the kids put in order, I would definitely take her on small ‘love tutorials’ (if you know what I mean).

These are just the few I have for now. Guys you can add yours, let them know what we want.